feat(shares): serve queued files to peers over F connections

Implement the upload path so a peer can download our shared files:
- fix the mis-coded PlaceInQueueResponse (43 -> 44) and add a real QueueUpload
  handler (code 43) -> PeerMessage::IncomingQueueUpload;
- the peer actor forwards it as ClientOperation::QueueUpload; the client looks
  the file up in its shares, mints an upload token (high half of the token
  space, disjoint from md5 download tokens), and offers it via ServeUpload ->
  build_upload_transfer_request (peer code 40, direction=upload);
- a TransferResponse for one of our serving tokens is handled by a surgical
  early-return that emits StartUpload, leaving the download path untouched;
- StartUpload resolves the downloader's address (GetPeerAddress, cached) and
  streams the file via a new peer::upload_peer::serve_file over an F connection.

Tested: build_upload_transfer_request decodes via the production Transfer
parser; serve_file streams a file correctly over a loopback F connection.

soulseek-rs-lib/src/peer/mod.rs

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 mod download_peer;
 pub mod listen;
+pub mod upload_peer;
 
 // Export actor types
 pub use crate::actor::peer_actor::{PeerActor, PeerMessage};