feat: cancel a download from the TUI, the CLI, and the daemon

Closes #54.

A download can now be cancelled whether it is queued, in progress, or
paused. Cancelled is a terminal status: the store refuses to overwrite
it, the status channel relays nothing after it, the partial file is
deleted, and the transfer thread releases its socket at its next
one-second poll instead of the 30s read deadline. A queued download that
is cancelled declines the peer's later offer with TransferResponse
"Cancelled", and an inbound file connection for it is refused. A fresh
download of the same file evicts the dead row so it is not shadowed,
and a cancelled transfer is not re-queued after a restart.

Surfaces: Client::cancel_download, download.cancel over RPC, `transfer
cancel <user> <path>` on the CLI (which also stops an upload by that
name), and x in the transfers pane, where d dismisses the row.

soulseek-rs/src/remote/mirror.rs

@@ -106,12 +106,7 @@ impl Mirror {
     fn route(buffers: &mut Buffers, update: DownloadStatusEvent) {
         let key = (update.username, update.filename);
         let status = DownloadStatus::from(update.status);
-        let terminal = matches!(
-            status,
-            DownloadStatus::Completed
-                | DownloadStatus::Failed(_)
-                | DownloadStatus::TimedOut
-        );
+        let terminal = status.is_terminal();
         let Some(sender) = buffers.downloads.get(&key) else {
             return;
         };